Signs and Synchronicities

I arrived in Fayetteville, Arkansas a few days ago. I walked outside on the balcony of my friend’s Airbnb and was immediately greeted by two red cardinals.

Signs and synchronicities.

Ok. I’m here. I surrender. It’s time.

I’m finishing up my written words for a new project today (my new series Uncovering Divine Femininity). While it is always scary to birth something new into the world, it is also my greatest honor.

When I’m called to share about my most vulnerable experiences, I have to get away. I have to leave my home. Leave my people. Leave all distractions. I have to spend a couple of days preparing myself for what I’m about to release. I’m a very private person. Sharing my innermost truths is not something I long to do. It’s what I’m called to do. I will fight it for a long time. Until finally, I surrender.

Writing about my experiences means reliving them. The last 18 months have been the most transformative time of my life. And this has been the most difficult experience I’ve ever written about. So naturally, I’m having a difficult time doing it.

My tell-all memoir

Sleeping with a Stranger is officially available everywhere books are sold, in hardcover, paperback, ebook, and audiobook. Since the book’s luanch, I’ve been amazed by how it has been received. From being named a best seller by USA Today, the Wall Street Journal, Amazon and Barnes & Noble to incredibly personal and touching reviews from my amazing readers, it’s been such a wild journey!

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HERE IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE SLEEPING WITH A STRANGER REVIEWS…

“Could not put this book down! Read it cover to cover. This story of love and perseverance and shear strength enlightens you, motivates you, and encourages you. Reading about what Jessica went through and overcame, you feel every emotion, every tear, every laugh, every anger. But what you walk away with is a sense of appreciation for her and a sense of strength in yourself. She made it, and so can you!” — Angela, Amazon Reviewer

The truest love is different from the status quo, the tired kind of love we’re so used to seeing and feeling.

When you reach it, you know it.

It’s not about balance. It’s about wholeness.

There are no rules. We get to frame our own ownership. We are all big kids and can choose our life path.

Living a double life is not doing anyone any good. Unconditional love believes we are not disadvantaging anyone by following our own truth.

Free your mind from expectations, judgments, limitations, fear.

Overcoming spiritual stigma. Muster the maturity to know your truth. No God of love would allow you to stay in any situation that isn’t built on a foundation of love.

We aren’t responsible for another’s trauma. In fact, staying in those situations is robbing the other of their own healing.

There is a difference between authentic connection and dutiful commitment.

It’s too heavy to wait.

The foundation is being set. A platform to stand on. Open heart. Being brave. Leap of faith.

Unconditional love through the overwhelm. Through the confusion.

I’m here. You’re here. Let’s keep going.